Well I did not go with my gut feeling and I should have. Several Posts ago, I talked about a date I had. I said then I did not think he was the one. So I thought I would try and be friends with him. After spending sometime with him, I knew this would not work. He was too nervous, afraid someone would "know" we are gay. Everything to be secretive, it seemed. I continued to text and call, trying to be a friend. Then every time a plan was made, for a lunch or dinner, it was cancelled for one reason or another. So I got the message.
Next time I will remember to listen to my gut, something I learned to do in my work, I have to remember this in the off hours. As the saying goes...NEXT! .
Next time I will remember to listen to my gut, something I learned to do in my work, I have to remember this in the off hours. As the saying goes...NEXT! .
2 comments:
Your gut doesn't lie. Our bodies always tell us the truth.
He's probably a very good guy, just in a different place than you on the coming-out path, and therefore a mismatch. Someday he may catch up and your paths may cross again, but in the mean time keep looking.
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