Several days ago I made mentions of a problem with my planned application for graduate study. Well here are the details...I found an online degree program that had everything I was looking for. it was affordable too. I even discovered my employer provides $2500 a year in tuition reimbursement for my job classification! So I was all set to apply, reading through the online application, I discovered a problem. There are a series of questions, petty standard like have you been convicted of a felony, are you a citizen, then the question I just do not like or want to answer. In fact I will not answer, and will not be applying to this school or other schools that ask this question.
The question; Have you EVER engaged in Heterosexual misconduct or Homosexual behavior? i.e. engage in sex, going to gay clubs, gay chat rooms, talked about gay issues, basically are you a homosexual? Say what?? Let that one sink in a minute.... and I thought don't ask don't tell was alive and well in the church. Not the SBC.
Now it crossed my mind to answer the question with a NO. However, that would be putting myself back in the closet, it would be a lie and counter productive. Now I also thought about saying yes, but this also would be counter productive. I am certain it would disqualify my admission and could get back to my home church. I do not want to confirm any one's suspicions. Then also I don't think its any one's business what my sexual preference is.
Not only do they basically ask about one's sexuality, to out oneself, they couple it with a misconduct question! That's the SBC for you. They firmly believe people like me are hell bound, regardless! Not gonna move them on that one either. I checked another SBC seminary and it had the same series of questions. I am disappointed at this, but not going to let it stop me. I will find a school where its not important.
A friend sent me a link to United Church of Christ seminaries, since they are open and affirming. I'm looking at them, along with a couple of more liberal seminaries here in my state. Two offer a combination of online and on campus options. The Online option is important to me.
Anyone have any suggestions? I will continue this discussion in future posts.
The question; Have you EVER engaged in Heterosexual misconduct or Homosexual behavior? i.e. engage in sex, going to gay clubs, gay chat rooms, talked about gay issues, basically are you a homosexual? Say what?? Let that one sink in a minute.... and I thought don't ask don't tell was alive and well in the church. Not the SBC.
Now it crossed my mind to answer the question with a NO. However, that would be putting myself back in the closet, it would be a lie and counter productive. Now I also thought about saying yes, but this also would be counter productive. I am certain it would disqualify my admission and could get back to my home church. I do not want to confirm any one's suspicions. Then also I don't think its any one's business what my sexual preference is.
Not only do they basically ask about one's sexuality, to out oneself, they couple it with a misconduct question! That's the SBC for you. They firmly believe people like me are hell bound, regardless! Not gonna move them on that one either. I checked another SBC seminary and it had the same series of questions. I am disappointed at this, but not going to let it stop me. I will find a school where its not important.
A friend sent me a link to United Church of Christ seminaries, since they are open and affirming. I'm looking at them, along with a couple of more liberal seminaries here in my state. Two offer a combination of online and on campus options. The Online option is important to me.
Anyone have any suggestions? I will continue this discussion in future posts.
